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Below are a list of some kewl websites around Surrey and the UK for your enjoyment
social Groups
pride events guide
the military community
mind, body and spirit
gay chat-date sites
online and off the shelf magazines
online directory
charity made easy
experiential workshops
overseas Friends
scooterMAN, Don't drink and
Mens Body Waxing
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Counselling Directory

Counselling Directory provides a huge support network of counsellors, enabling visitors to find a counsellor close to them and appropriate for their needs.

Visit their website


pride events guide

Check out the Pride section, full listings, submit your pictures and enter our competition, PRIDE
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social groups


CAGS is a society for gay men and women in and around Croydon. We have about 75 members. The Society is over 30 years old, having started out as a local group of the Campaign for Homosexual Equality (CHE).

We offer a full programme of social events, with at least two events per month in members' homes, plus outside events of various kinds.

Berkshire Gay Link
BGL provides non-scene social life for single and partnered gay men. We have a comprehensive calendar of social events available to members who simply want to socialise with other gay people.
Check out how to join

SLAGO includes social and support groups for gay men and lesbians in various parts of London and the Home Counties. The different groups cover different geographical areas, different age ranges, and various activities, including pub evenings, coffee evenings and bottle parties in members' homes, meetings with speakers, trips out to theatre, cinema, and places of interest, and tennis and other sporting events.

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the military community


An armed forces community website for gay servicemen and women in the United Kingdom who are unashamedly proud2Serve. Includes a forum, useful military reference documents and other forces-related information

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gay chat-date sites

The worldwide web for chat, date and friends in your area to across the globe

connecting gay and bi guys on the internet

Out in the UK
See info and photos from members connected to OUT at the same time as you: either all of them or just the members in your region
Pink Dates
The dating agency for gay people
Gay Natter
Browse to the GAYnatter Website 

Made BY women, FOR women, this site is a safety zone for lesbian, queer, bisexual and bi-curious women. We invite all females to come inside and explore their sexuality - and each other!

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Victor Tilson Art

The new master of British contemporary art".
View the work and judge for yourself

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mind, body and spirit

Deep Living


If you're experiencing depression then you know that you cannot just ‘snap out of it'. If your depression is anything like the depression I experienced for years then it probably feels quite hopeless and like there is no way out.

Recent developments in the field of Energy Therapy and specifically, Meridian Tapping Techniques [including EFT, Emotional Freedom Techniques] mean that help is now readily available for those suffering from depression.

This two day experience blends Energy Therapy techniques with NLP and Hypnosis to explore and release depression from various angles at both the conscious and unconscious level, where long lasting change happens; expect to experience profound shifts in a safe and compassionate environment.

Led by Bennie Naudé, a highly experienced international workshop leader, Advanced EFT Therapist and Trainer, NLP, Hypnosis & Neurological Repatterning Practitioner and Results Coach.

WHEN: 8 & 9 Aug 2009
WHERE: Shiva Health, Kingston-upon-Thames
COST: £180 (£160 if booked before 30/06/09; for an additional 5% discount mention ‘Gay Surrey' when booking)

CONTACT & MORE INFO: | | 07795 468 042

NOTE: Due to the sensitive nature of this workshop the maximum number of participants are limited to 10.


Learn the basic foundations of the powerful tapping technique of EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) and how to apply it to yourself and others; get the opportunity to practice it in a safe and fun environment and leave with the confidence to help yourself and others!

See for how effective EFT is in treating issues like depression, food cravings, addictions, insomnia, nail biting, fears of public speaking and flying, phobias; profoundly powerful to increase self-acceptance, performance, focus and a general sense of wellbeing.

Taught by Bennie Naudé, a highly experienced international workshop leader, Advanced EFT Therapist and Trainer, NLP, Hypnosis & Neurological Repatterning Practitioner and Results Coach.

WHEN: 1 & 2 Aug 2009
Tue nights 7pm – 9.30pm 28 July 09 – 1 Sep 09 (6 weeks)

WHERE: Shiva Health, Kingston-upon-Thames
COST: £180 (£160 if booked before 30/06/09; for an additional 5% discount mention ‘Gay Surrey' when booking)

CONTACT & MORE INFO: | | 07795 468 042

NOTE: To maintain a high level of personal teacher-participant interaction the maximum number of participants are limited to 10.


Have you ever really wanted to change your behaviour, lose weight or stop smoking and simply couldn't do it no matter how hard you tried? Are you experiencing depression, food cravings, insomnia or do you procrastinate a lot? This is often a sign that our conscious and unconscious minds are pulling in different directions; masterfully blending Energy Therapies with NLP and Hypnosis we powerfully bridge that gap, allowing you to release the pain of the past, achieve your goals and vastly increase your general sense of physical and emotional wellbeing.

Whether you desire relief from emotional or physical pain or trauma or if you want to see yourself achieve that ever-elusive goal (health, wealth or more fulfilling relationships), Energy Therapy often helps were nothing else will:

•  Stop smoking or lose weight

•  Overcome depression, phobias and food cravings or stop biting your nails

•  Be able to speak or sing confidently in public

•  Increase your sports or business performance, motivation and self image exponentially

•  Heal old trauma (physical, emotional, spiritual) and let go of the past dictating your future

•  Sleep better at night, generally have more energy and feel more in flow with life

I have seen profound results in hundreds of client sessions and continue to hear the most wonderful stories of people rapidly transforming their lives, often in a fraction of the time of conventional therapies. I am so confident that these tools and the way I apply them will help you that I offer a 100% money back guarantee.

Based in Kingston-upon-Thames, Surbiton, Wandsworth and Central London I offer 1-2-1 therapy and coaching sessions (in person or phone/Skype), group sessions, specialised workshops (e.g. depression) and EFT Level I (Foundation), II (Intermediate) and III (Advanced) trainings.

For a 5% discount, mention ‘Gay Surrey' when booking.

Bennie Naudé
Advanced EFT Therapist and Trainer
Diploma in Integrated Energy Therapies
NLP, Hypnosis & Neurological Repatterning Practitioner and Results Coach

CONTACT & MORE INFO: | | 07795 468 042

Pink Therapy
Pink Therapy is the UK's largest private therapy practice working with all sexual minorities.  We have an online Directory of Pink Therapists which lists over 250 qualified and experienced therapists of all sexual and theoretical orientations working around the UK.  We are also actively involved in training other therapists in issues that concern our lives.  Our London based Associate therapists are some of the most experienced lgbt therapists in the UK.
Japenese Medicine

Acupuncture has been practiced for thousand of years and has a few style. Five-element acupuncture is a style that emphasizes the individual rather than the illness. Through observation of how the five elements manifest in a person, it is possible to understand the primary constitutional imbalance and identify the root of the illness. Treatment is then focused on nourishing the root to achieve harmony between the elements, which promotes health in the person's body mind ad spirit.

Find out more and call Natural Therapies on 01932 888663, based in Weybridge

BR Energy Training

Welcome to BR Holistic, the home of brain respiration in the UK. Discover health, happiness and your true potential of your brain through exercise, meditation and energy training


Reflexology is a treatment that may benefit the whole body through the manipulation of the feet or hands.

Originally derived from a practice used by the Ancient Chinese and Egyptians, it was only in the last century that the feet and hands were considered to be the map of the body.

Find out more and call 07733 305718 or E Mail Us based in Addlestone, Surrey

Mens Body Waxing

Hi, my name is Tina, I have 15 years experience in the beauty industry. I mainly specialise in waxing, lately I have noticed a growing number of male clientele  who require more than a back or chest wax. so now I am offering full body waxing manzilian (back sack and crack) as some would call it but not me. so for what ever the reason. 

Drop me a call on chertsey 01932 571313 to book an appointment

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online directory


The North East's fantastic new LGBT website aimed at providing the latest information on the best Gay Venues in the region, from Newcastle Gay Scene in the North, to Tees Valley in the South!

As an 'independently run' website we are focused on providing a comprehensive guide to the gay pubs and clubs in the region, with detailed up to date information on prices, promotions, recruitment, accommodation, and local gay events. As well as the latest gay news in the area, so you wont be short of information whilst your visiting the new look site!

Lesbians without issues

It's great being an out lesbian as the positives far outweigh the negatives. You get to go on dates with women. How fantastic is that? You don't have to worry about birth control. Doing the weekly shop means buying your body weight in chocolate and ice-cream without your partner thinking you're a weirdo. There's no pressure from your parents to get married and become a baby-making machine. Did I mention you get to date women?

Alas, not everyone shares this happy outlook. Lesbians with issues are a growing problem. You know the ones I'm talking about; born pessimists with a life is unfair attitude.

I don't know about you but I'd much rather hang out with cheery lesbians who do tequila body shots and shake their money maker to Dancing Queen.

There are lesbians without issues and this website is dedicated to every single one of them.

Pink UK

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online and off the shelf magazines


Welcome to the first edition of this brand new online magazine for the LGBT community. This debut publication is jam packed with tons of information from across the country so whether you're interested in theatre, sport, politics, travel, civil partnerships, history or support group news there's definitely plenty for you to read.

We also have a Myspace site at so why not become a friend of the site and in between editions we'll be putting out bulletins with the latest news and reviews.

If you want to write for us, then just get in touch with me by emailing me at: or calling me on 07804 348 642. Those are also the contact addresses if you have a news item you'd like us to include or you'd like to take advantage of our ridiculously low advertising rates. We'll be back at the end of August, I hope you enjoy this edition, see you all very soon

Download the latest edition

Queerscape is Britain's fastest growing online current affairs and lifestyle magazine for the whole gay, lesbian and bisexual community (LGBT).

Rainbow Network
The uk's gay and lesbian network for all the news, holidays, gossip and much much more
Gingerbeer, London's leading website for lesbians and bisexual women. Everything you need to know about the scene from bars, clubs and cafes to events and community group
Gay Woman
Gay women. The lesbian uk site. Shopping as well as events and pubs and clubs are a few of the features. If you would like to add a link or have news or gossip, please e-mail your details and we will endeavor to list you as quickly as possible. If you have a web site, a reciprocal link is welcomed. Visit the premier lesbian dating site.You can meet 100's of women online now! You can view profiles, see who is online, receive and send emails and have your photos uploaded. Membership is FREE. If you have a resource or related content, you can add it free. Browse our site which is constantly being updated and growing
Gay Times Magazine

Gay Times Magazine - the UK 's leading gay life and style magazine. from the latest news, reviews and fashion to a comprehensive national scene and travel guide.


Diva Magazine
Diva Magazine - Whether you are just coming out or just want to keep up-to-date, DIVA is the only place to check out the latest news, reviews and scene info.
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Charity made easy

Justgiving is the easy, efficient and fun way to raise funds and donate to charity online.

Our unique technology enables donors to give to charity quickly, tax-efficiently and easily and our award-winning online fundraising tools enable anyone to raise money for their favourite cause with the minimum of hassle.

By connecting donors directly to the causes they care about, we are raising the profile of charities across the UK and bringing fundraising into the 21st century. We want to make it fun and engaging for charities and donors alike. Justgiving is a private company located in central London, employing 15 people who are experts in business, fundraising and technology. We also have an office in Boston, USA. We power the online donation services of over 750 UK charities, helping them cut costs and sparing them the expense of developing their own technology.

Our cutting edge solutions provide:

  • Individual fundraisers with a proven, easy way to raise serious money for charity
  • Charities with the best integrated fundraising and communication tools
  • Event organisers with an incredibly easy to use system for participants and partners
  • Companies with a one-stop way of engaging their employees, encouraging payroll giving and raising their profile as community-orientated organisations
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Experiential Workshops

Head, Heart and Soul

Experiential workshops for gay/bi men to re-connect with themselves and others in a deep, authentic way.  We provide a safe space for you to discover more of who you really are and what may be holding you back from living the life you truly desire.

Are you the man you thought you would become? 

Head, Heart and Soul - experiential workshops for gay/bi men: 

· Do you sense there is more to you than you are able to reach?

· How does it feel being the man you are?

· Do you sometimes feel alone, or on the outside?

· Would you like to have a more intimate relationship with yourself and others?

Come explore and discover more of you really are and what may be holding you back from living the life your heart and soul desires.  Reclaim parts of yourself and reconnect with yourself (your head, heart and soul) and others in a deep authentic way.  Run by men, for men. 

See for more details, email or call Bennie (0208 3399 588) or Adriaen (07931 719 797).

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GayLawNet is dedicated to providing general information, news and resources concerning the law as it affects the global gay, lesbian, bisexual, transsexual and intersex (GLBTI) community and the simplest access to a gay or lesbian (or gay or lesbian-friendly) lawyer.

Services in Surrey


Robert Blackford & Co
Hill House
1 Mint Walk
Tel: 020 8686 6232
Fax: 020 8681 5078

Atkins Hope
74/78 North End
Tel: 020 8680 5018
Fax: 020 86888347

Family law, crime, accidents and injury, buying/selling property, employment and welfare benefits, wills and estates


Demelza Patricio
TWM Solicitors LLP The Tunsgate 128 High Street Guildford Surrey GU1 3HH Tel: 01483 565771  Fax: 01483 300168 Email:

All aspects of advice on Civil Partnerships - legal and financial implications of entering into a Partnership, Pre-Partnership Agreements, separation and dissolution. Also Divorce, Separation and related financial issues. Contact and Residence of Children after separation and related issues. Domestic Violence. Pre-nuptial and Cohabitation Agreements. Mediation and Collaborative Law. We advise on these issues at four of our seven offices - Guildford Tunsgate, Epsom, Reigate and Wimbledon.

Please visit for contact details for all offices and for other areas of law

Philip Bennett
2 Howard Buildings, 69-71 Burpham Lane
Tel: 01483 543790
Fax: 01483 535017

Children law and adoption


Martin Lowe & Co
Mint House
6 Stanely Park Road
Tel: 0208 395 8777


Peter Moore
6 Oakhill Gardens, Oatlands Drive
Tel: 01932 244 340

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What a great site, this is I have to say - check it out
The idea of a SwapXchange is simple. You can offer any unwanted items from your home or business to others who may have use for them. You can ask for items in return or swap for a service such as help for your garden. Or you could just give them away as you no longer need them. You don't have
to have something to swap.

About this site - what is it?
This website is designed to:-

a) Help people swap/give away or otherwise find a home for items that they no longer want, possibly swapping them for something that they do want

b) Help people to stop having to throw things away because they cannot find anywhere else to dispose of them

And it's free!!
There are no registration or other charges and everything advertised on the site is
free or to swap (although obviously you may have to pay charges to use the internet).

Swap It is a website for the people of Surrey. We regularly receive enquiries from people who have items they can't find a use for, but don't just want to throw away. We are hoping that this website will enable them to find a home for these items so that they do not end up in landfill sites.

You can give things away for free or swap them for something else, or ask for an item you want.

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Do It.Org

do-it was launched in 2001 with the first, and still the only, national database of volunteering opportunities in the UK.

do-it is part of the registered charity YouthNet .  We are non-profit-making and do not charge organisations to register their opportunities or people to use the database.

Search our database for UK volunteering opportunities and find out all you need to know to become a volunteer

The majority of opportunities on do-it come from local Volunteer Centres in England. These organisations have been provided with hardware, software and training by do-it so that they can upload their vacancies onto the do-it database.

in addition some national organisations post their opportunities directly on to do-it.

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Volunteering Organisations

NACVS (the National Association of Councils for Voluntary Service) is the growing network of 350 CVS and other local voluntary and community infrastructure organisations throughout England. We help to promote voluntary and community action by supporting our member CVS and by acting as a national voice for the local voluntary and community sector.

Central Surrey CVS
Contact Bob Frisby

The Old Town Hall The Parade, Epsom, KT18 5AG

01372 722911

01372 722911


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Elmbridge CVS
Contact Priscilla Austen

c/o Elmbridge VB Residents House, Esher, KT10 9RA

01372 463587

01372 462111


Guildford AVS
39 Castle Street , Guildford, GU1 3UQ

01483 504626

01483 304229


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Reigate & Banstead CVS
Contact Lynne Loving

76 Station Road, Redhill, RH1 1PL

01737 763156

01737 772098



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Runnymede AVS
Contact Heather Cook

12-13 The Sainsbury Centre, Chertsey, KT16 9AG

01932 571122

01932 566077



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Surrey CA
'Astolat' Coniers Way New Inn Lane, Guildford, GU4 7HL

01483 566072

01483 440508


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Surrey Heath VS
Contact Christine Furneaux

Community Link Surrey Heath House, Camberley, GU15 3HH

01276 707565

01276 707567



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Overseas Friends

Welcome to GaySurrey , British Columbia Canada
The Website that serves Surrey , and the Fraser Valley, Coquitlam, Port Coquitlam, Port Moody, Chilliwack and the Lower Fraser Valley. This website offers information to our friends in Surrey Canada, from youth advice, weddings, events and a whole ot more, check it out

Surrey Pride 2005, 8th, 9th and 10th July Find out more

Gay Surrey, linking with our friends across the water

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Dont drink and drive, let ScooterMAN take care of you


I love this site, its SO SO kewl
Here is how it works

You drink, They drive
They are a different kind of chauffeur service, they drive you home in your own car

So, get this -

  1. Drive your car
  2. Go out, go eat, go drink, go party
  3. Book your scooterMAN on 0870 24 26 999
  4. ScooterMAN arrives on a folding scooter comprehensively insured and ready to drive your car
  5. ScooterMAN drives you home in your car with the scooter sealed in a bag in your boot

Fnd out more

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